The concept of "face", haggling at markets, behavior in company and small things that make communication easier.

Chinese culture is about the collective, respect for elders and the concept of “face” (mianzi). A few rules will help you win locals over.

Good to know

  • “Face”: avoid public criticism and arguments in raised voices — they make the other person “lose face”.
  • Haggling is appropriate at markets and in small shops (but not in supermarkets and restaurants) — bargain with a smile.
  • Loud speech and pushing in queues are the norm, so do not take them personally.
  • Accept a business card and tea with both hands as a sign of respect.

At the table

Shared dishes are placed in the center, and chopsticks are not stuck in rice. Tipping is not customary. Trying a little of everything is a compliment to the host.

Gifts and numbers

  • Do not give a clock or watch: “giving a clock” sounds almost like “seeing someone off on their final journey”. For the same reason, white and black wrapping, the colors of mourning, are avoided.
  • The number 8 is lucky (it sounds like “wealth”), while 4 is unlucky (it sounds like “death”); do not give a set of four.
  • A red envelope with money (hongbao) is a welcome gift at holidays.